TITLE: A Gift
for My Sister
AUTHOR: Ann Pearlman
PUBLISHED: May 1, 2012
LANGUAGE: English
RATING: Young Adult
GENRE: Drama
PURCHASE LINKS: Amazon
AUTHOR: Ann Pearlman
PUBLISHED: May 1, 2012
LANGUAGE: English
RATING: Young Adult
GENRE: Drama
PURCHASE LINKS: Amazon
My Rating:
SUMMARY:
Ann Pearlman's The Christmas Cookie Club enthralled
readers everywhere with a heartwarming and touching story about the power of
female friendship.
Now, in A Gift for My Sister, she once
again explores the depth of the human heart, and this time it’s through the
eyes of two sisters. Tara and Sky share a mother, but aside from that they seem
to differ in almost every way. When a series of tragedies strikes, they must
somehow come together in the face of heartbreak, dashed hopes, and demons of
the past. The journey they embark on forces each woman to take a walk in the
other’s shoes and examine what sisterhood really means to them. It’s a long
road to understanding, and everyone who knows them hopes these two sisters can
find a way back to each other.
REVIEW:
This book was a
tumultuous ride for me. The book starts out with Sky waking because she can’t
sleep past a certain time due to the death of her best friend Mia. This awoke
cords in me because I too wake at a certain time every morning due to deaths. I
kept reading and my world just went topsy, turvy. Sky had lost 3 pregnancies, I too had lost 3 twin
pregnancies in the span of one year and I knew the heart felt pain that losing
those pregnancies cost me, so right away I was sucked kicking and screaming
into Sky’s life. Then to make matters worse her husband has this boil on his
back and winds up sick. My husband luckily only had the flu but I had to put
the book down and go “oh no, this is so not happening.” Once my darling husband
was well again and I lived thru the ridicule of him saying Chris it’s just a
book it is NOT your life, I continued bravely on. Only to once again put the
book down while practically in tears saying I wouldn’t want to live if this
happened to me. So without going into more detail than that, because I truly
don’t want to give the story away, I will say this READ THIS BOOK!
We have two sisters
who are diametrically opposed on pretty much everything. Sky is the “perfect
child” at least in Tara’s eyes. Tara meanwhile is the hellion, the one who
needs no one. But BOTH girls have scars that run so deep inside them from their
own childhood. Sky’s father passed away suddenly when she was just a child, her
mother remarried (the wrong man), Tara was born and almost immediately Tara’s
father was out of the picture, because he was a cheat. Tara winds up being the
strong one in this book, the one who helps her sister deal with all the
tragedies that have been thrown in her path. Tara helps her sister and in
return Sky gets an inside look at Tara’s life and the daily prejudices she must
deal with. The thing is this author has
hit upon the very things that children deal with even as adults. Sky resented
her sister because her sister still had a father, even an absentee father is
still a father. Tara meanwhile envied her sister because she was allowed to go
out, have sleep overs, wear make-up and all the other things younger siblings
envy older ones. Tara also was jealous of the relationships Sky had with her
husband. Something she herself cannot seem to do with her longtime boyfriend
and “baby daddy”. Tara is ALWAYS looking over her shoulder for the woman who
will steal her man away from her and she can’t fully open herself up to Aaron,
even though he loves her fully.
Pearlman did a
wonderful job reenacting what would happen should two such people be suddenly
thrust together. Their forced time together leads to some very interesting and
intense interactions, the anger comes out in odd times and this in turn leads
to such strong acts of kindness and understanding and compassion that we the
reader are literally in their lives.
I can say one thing
about 60% into the book I was doing some serious yelling at the books Author in
my head and saying if you kill off one person so help me god I’m going to scream!
I truly did have a unique bond with Sky due to my own personal life and
tragedies. And I have also a keen understanding of where they live since I
lived in Flint Michigan for many, many years. I can understand the bigotry and
racism that Tara and Aaron must deal with and the fears they have for their son
Levy.
I have to say one
thing I truly enjoyed her thoughts that you should love regardless, not to the
destruction of yourself, but in spite of yourself. I will say I felt the story
had far too much death in it for my own personal tastes, but that could once
again be due to my own life and the pure number of deaths that have happened in
our family in the last 2 years.
I also can say
truthfully that while I didn’t “enjoy” this read I did enjoy the ending and I
did enjoy the fact that it wasn’t a true story. I also can say I did enjoy the
way the author looked at the exact same space in time through BOTH sisters’
eyes by breaking it into separate chapters unique to each sister. So while you
had read something just seconds before it took on a whole new depth when you
saw how the other sister saw the same situation. This is indeed what I always
believed that BOTH sides of a story must be told for a person to know what
honestly happened, because somewhere in the middle is where the truth of the
situation lies.
This book was a
fabulous mix of past and present and told in such a manner that you never
wondered. The sisters travel along their paths merging and separating until
these paths finally merge to show just how close a bond there is with sisters,
and that family is there for you when you need it.
Pearlman did a
fabulous job on character creation and you feel as if the characters are actual
family members or friends. The emotions this author can pull from you is
amazing and the love that the sisters have for their children shines on through
the darkest of times. The pain, the suffering, the laughter and the love are all
shared by the reader and I praise Pearlman for her wonderful job of sucking me
into the story.
This story is
sentimental, and full of conflict, it is about life’s hardships and how the two
sisters can deal with these hardships to become closer. It is a story about
sisters and family, loss and abandonment, love and most of all forgiveness. I
can recommend this book to anyone who doesn’t mind reading about life’s
hardships or a book that can and will spark a dozen different thoughts and
emotions. While it was a rough ride for me personally since my own personal
tragedies were far too close to those suffered by Sky, I can still honestly say
I think this is what I classify as a must read.
Details/Disclaimer: Review copy was provided to me in exchange for a fair and honest review. The free book held no determination on my personal review.
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