So now this is supposed to be all about a hobby of mine, although this is definitely not a hobby it is something I hold quite dear to my heart. I'm supposed to toot my own horn, so here it goes... Toot Toot Toot! Now that all that nonsense is out of the way... On to the very subject we are here to read about. Home education! Read on if you dare, it is definitely NOT for the faint of heart!
Who educates their
children at home?
The reason why people choose to home educate their children
is usually taken to be due to religious convictions or medical necessity.
However, in Australia one of the fastest growing trends is the rise in parent’s
home educating their children. This is in part due to the failing academics in
Australia. Australia is currently ranked 27th in the world. What is
so amazing about this is that Hong Kong who spends far less money and far less
time in school than Australia is ranked number 1. This makes me wonder why it is that Australia
is dropping the proverbial ball when it comes to children’s education. Teachers
blame the School, Schools blame the curriculum passed by the Government, and
the Government blames funding. Yet most
governments waste billions of dollars per year on Immigration or Military. So who suffers? It’s the children who suffer, that’s who. So
now while religious and medical reasons still rank high on why people choose to
home educate their children, a rise in the number of parents disillusioned by
the school system are now turning to home education as a viable option.
Home Schoolers are
just LAZY!
Now people immediately think that home schoolers are just
lazy. Parents who don’t wish to wake up early enough to make breakfast and get
their children off to school. But nothing can be further from the truth. My own
day begins at 5:30 every morning and does not end until 8:30 at night. There is
no one to grade the work my son does but me, there is no one to set the
curriculum but me, there is no one to research different learning styles but
me. My son meanwhile is with ME, EVERY DAY, ALL DAY. Could you deal with that
kind of commitment to your child?
Your curriculum can’t
possibly be any good!
Our personal school day may operate differently than a
regular school day but my son’s curriculum is far superior to what is currently
offered in the schools. The law dictates
what we must “touch upon” and we not only touch upon these items but actually
TEACH them. Add to this my son who is in grade four has the following
curriculum: Journal writing (every morning), Mathematics, English Grammar,
Spelling, Reading, Research and Writing, Science, History, Technology, Art,
Music and Foreign Language Studies and World Events/History. Everything and I
do mean everything can be found on the internet. Links to some of my favorite sites are
provided below.
So what is so good
about home schooling?
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There are a number of things that are great
about home schooling. The first is our schedules are our own. In our case my
son goes to school Monday through Friday from 9 to 3 for 6 weeks then he gets a
week off. In the regular schools here they go for 9 to 11 weeks and then have a
week off and 6 weeks off at Christmas time.
My son’s schedule allows that he is in school for the same number of
weeks per year as the children in Public/Private Schools but without that long
Christmas break so he doesn’t have time to get bored or to forget everything he
has been taught. There is also the aspect of closure, he gets his rewards for
reading, writing, just as other children do but they are more frequent during
the year since his term ends every 6 weeks. Since we work in unit studies our
subject matter is across ALL subjects, i.e. this term was Greek Mythology using
Percy Jackson the Lightning Thief as reading material with the prize of getting
to watch the movie at the end of term. This crossed into all subjects from
reading on through to maths and sciences.
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We have subjects which are not even being taught
to grade four children. My son is taking Spanish, which is not even offered
here in Australia and no foreign languages are offered until year 7. Art and
Music are being taught in a much different manner. While in the schools my son
was taught Art simply by drawing or painting “crafts”, while at home we did an
entire unit study on an Artist and then did our art projects to emulate the
artist’s style, in this case Romero Britto. In Music, he is being taught about
Music Theory, something that the schools here don’t offer to grade 4 children.
Yet it is a wonderful way to teach children to not only read music but to play
it as well. He is also enrolled in a Drama Class and Dance class.
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The last thing that pops into my mind when asked
what is so great about home schooling is that Home Education offers us FREEDOM!
In our case my son has special learning needs that the school regardless of how
many times I pointed them out and asked them to have him evaluated ignored. In
our case my son’s teacher told me that they were promoting him to fourth grade
even after numerous requests for him to be retained, fourth grade started and
my son slipped farther and farther behind. At the end of third term I pulled
him when the teachers once again said they were promoting him to grade 5. What
gets me is at this point my son could pass the grade two maths test with an 80%
but when it went to the grade three maths test he scored only 30% and the grade
four a whopping .04% yes you read right, and they were going to promote him
regardless of his failing grades due to his supposed ability to socialize.
HOWEVER, my son has NO friends, not a single one. Socialization is not a reason
to promote a child especially since it will not do the child any good to be a
grade higher and farther behind. Since this time my son has been diagnosed with
Asperger’s/Non-Verbal Learning Disorder and he is thriving at home. He can have
frequent breaks or reminders from me to keep him on task. He can have as I call
it Wiggle time. He can have the stimulation that he could not possibly have in
the school system. Plus we can take the time needed for him to master the
subjects in question. He is currently working on Grade 6 English Grammar, Grade
3 Maths, Grade 3 Science, and Grade 6 History. So as you can see his needs are
being met by allowing for a cross grade curriculum.
Can anyone home
educate their children?
Yes, however, home educating is not something to undertake
lightly. You are committing yourself not only to be a parent, but to be a
teacher of a young mind. You have to be committed to be there 24 hours a day, 7
days a week, 365 days a year, you will say yeah well that’s what parents do
commit to be there every day for 18 years. But in the case of home educating,
you have to remember that it is hard work, you have to set the curriculum for
your children, you have to give them the work they need to do, you need to
teach them what they need to learn, you need to grade the work you gave them
and you have to do all this while your child is still in the home with you, no
breaks from your child for you. You also have to remember that children need
different forms of entertainment than adults do. And you absolutely must
remember to take ME time (or as I jokingly call it sanity time) and to give
your child their ME time. It’s a tightrope walk some days, but when you make it
to the end of another long day and see your child sleeping in their bed you
realize that it truly is one of the greatest gifts we can give our children.
~Our Time~
and
~A Future~
My Favorite Books for Home Education/Special Needs
Home School Secrets
The First Year of Homeschooling Your Child:
The Ultimate Book of Homeschooling Ideas:
What It Is to Be Me!: An Asperger Kid Book
The Survival Guide for Kids with Autism Spectrum Disorders (And Their Parents)
Be Different: Adventures of a Free-Range Aspergian with Practical Advice for Aspergians, Misfits, Families & Teachers
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Very good..... decided not to use the pictures? I wanted to see that masterpiece :)
ReplyDeleteAs a fellow home educator, you know I can only say bravo!
I'll have to add it to the post for you... :) My son was being stubborn this yesterday when I was making the blog and wouldn't do his classwork. We have good days and bad days... :)
DeleteGreat post. Although I didn't home school my kids, I have relatives and friends who did, and I really admire them. In fact, they told me that colleges were even favoring kids who were home schooled, because they were so well educated, which I found amazing. Most of my friends who do this are very committed, organized, and devoted, which I am sure makes the difference. Thanks for the great post!
ReplyDeleteI wish I could home school but don't have the means or patience. Great post!
ReplyDeleteSince we live in Australia it makes it a little easier on the budget. And due to our son's specialized learning needs the state actually has a payment for us (supposedly I haven't seen it yet), which is supposed to help with purchasing supplies and stuff like that. Patience... well... yeah I think I'm SUPPOSED to have that... just some days I want to go bury my head in the sand... :) My husband is a great support. I think I probably should have written in there how family support is a must.
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